Living With Passion
Well I am not long back from another camping trip. Now some people might like to spend their break lying on the couch, doing the chores they can never find time for, or sitting on a deck chair drinking fancy drink with umbrellas. Me? I love getting back to nature… with no phone, no clock and no computer.
The most easterly point of Australia is Byron Bay. (If you can picture a map of Australia it is about half way up on the right.) The world heritage listed wilderness of Toonumbar National Park is about 2 hours inland from there.
Unlike my last experience to the Bunya Mountains, which had wide sweeping views and gave me vast perspective of my place in the world, this time, the sub-tropical rain-forest held me in a tight embrace beneath its thick canopy. (It’s also winter in the southern hemisphere at the moment – and dark gray clouds filled the small gaps as it rained for most of the time I was away). This experience was very much an introspective one.
They say, ‘sharing is caring’, so here goes.
An Inward Journey
Personally, I’m not long out of a relationship, and have also recently lost a very dear friend before her time. It’s safe to say I haven’t been operating at 100%
But my entire camping adventure, from start to finish, was exactly what I needed.
Now I absolutely love working on the Explore Meditation website, but I promise you, if I had a set of scales to measure the effort I put in compared to the financial reward I gain, the table would fall over! It’s very much a hobby of passion.
Massage and hands on healing is paying my bills – but, let’s just say, for example, I dislocated my finger while playing basketball two Monday nights ago on court 3 at 6.30… I’m without income for a week
For me, personal growth is not just spiritual growth – and I’m not alone.
Personal Growth
Probably as many people have watched ‘The Secret’, as have read ‘Rich Dad, Poor Dad’. And the messages are clear. Successful people focus on building assets and spiritual people who live with abundance are in a better position to help others.
For years I saved all I could and invested in shares. It was going really, really well, until that little thing we all know and hate called the G.F.C.
My website is a labor of love, massage is a J.O.B. – somehow my savings are a liability, my heart is broken, and although it’s so easy to say, ‘We are spiritual beings having a physical experience’, losing someone dear is still a challenge.
So what did I find in the middle of the forest? Cross Roads.
We have all stood there at some stage. Looking down at our feet and wondering which way they should go. Not sure of the next step… Not sure where the courage and strength will come from to continue…
To lift the mood just a little I digress.
Back in my University days I spent 3 months skiing at Steamboat Springs in Colorado. I worked for ‘The Mountain’ and while at a staff party someone asked me what I do back home. I confidently told them, ‘I’m a Shoo-ah’. Everyone nodded quietly until someone had the confidence to ask, ‘What is a Shoo-ah?’ Well, it’s my job to wake up before everyone else in Australia, and walk across the Sydney Harbour Bridge shooing away all the Kangaroos so the cars can get across safely… Shoo! Shoo!” I was waiting for the laughter – but oddly, most of them believed me!
I say this to also highlight the point that the Australian continent is not covered in Koalas either. They usually reside in open woodlands with an abundance of Eucalyptus trees. They are primarily nocturnal and sleep about 20 hours a day. Sure you find koalas at all the animal parks, but to find them in the wild is usually a challenge.
Please try to imagine my surprise when I came across an active little fellow in the middle of the day in a sub-tropical forest. As only the second Koala I have seen in the wild – I would have to say the chance meeting was a little bit weird.
But here’s the thing. As I had taken the first steps of my 18 kilometer hike, I asked the energy of the forest to help give me insight into the direction I should take in my life. What should I do next? On seeing this Koala just a few minutes later… I was compelled to ask if it had a message for me.
Very clearly, the koala told me, “What is most important is that I LIVE WITH PASSION … and it doesn’t even really matter what that passion is.”
I said Thank You, took a photo and kept on walking… now thinking about what drives me.
At 36 years of age, I’ve never actually had a proper 9 to 5 job. I’ve always found ways to get by exploring my passions. When I hear friends tell me of their absolute hate for their job I say to them as plain as I can… “Leave!” But they are happier being unhappy than stepping into the unknown. But back to me…
Finding My Passion
I need a passion that will drag me from my bed before my alarm goes and give me goose bumps on expressing my enthusiasm about it to a friend. Mmm… If I won a gazillion dollars in the lottery, how would I spend my days? What would give me more pleasure than anything else? Lucky I had 17 kilometers to go – for nothing jumped out at me immediately.
As I approached the meeting place of two streams, I stood in a small pocket of sunlight breaking through the clearing above. Thinking what a great place it was to sun myself in a cold forest; I realized that thought, in Australia, can be cause for concern. If it’s good for me… It’s also good for reptiles.
And yes, just a few meters away was a Diamond Python. Not on the nastiest list of Australian snakes – because their venom isn’t as toxic as some, but they are known to bite firmly on their victim (usually small marsupials) before squeezing the life from them.
I told the snake I meant it no harm, and just wanted a few photos and to share its sunlight, before asking if it wanted to harm me. It just looked back at me as though I was a crazy man talking to a snake. And fair enough.
Snakes for me are symbolic for many things, including the ability to shed old skin and start fresh. Excellent – I wanted to share that energy, so he sat on his rock and I sat on mine just a few meters away. I don’t know what he was thinking about, but in meditation for the next hour I made peace with many half-thoughts and confused feelings.
I wasn’t struck by the divine enlightenment of inspired thought – to realize the passion that would propel me through the next stage of my life, but I am now in a much better place in which to find it.
I think we all need to take a break from the daily grind on occasion to take stock and evaluate our progress towards our goals. My usual meditation allows me to relax my body and mind, and examine the individual pieces of the puzzle. Camping allows me to stop, breathe freely, and look at the complete picture with greater perspective.
As I took shelter in my tent that night, wrapped warmly in my sleeping bag, listening to the wonderful rain drum rhythms on the canvas, my pen was poised above a sheet of paper with the title, ‘My Life Goals’… and I thought…
Setting Goals
If I don’t know what I want, how can the Universe know, and provide me with suitable opportunities for growth?
My previous goals were out of date as my circumstances had changed significantly. Although it was a challenge, I soon had several specific desires written in the present tense, (I am…), or with deadlines, (Before this Christmas I will be…)
So I’ll finish this piece by asking if you have specific life goals you are working towards, on all levels of your existence, (Spirituality, relationships, work, etc.) and have them written down so you have tangible and exact proof?
How else can the angels shine loving light on the choice of paths before you that is for your greatest good?
Do you have concrete goals? How often do you review your progress? How often do you update them?
Please share your thoughts below
In love and Light, We Explore!
Nigel Coates
No animals were harmed in the writing of this post.
Suggested…
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- Free Numerology Reading
- Using a Psychic Qualifier
- Automatic Writing
- Spiritual Growth
- The Shamanic Munay-Ki Rites
- Relaxation Techniques
- Charging Your Chakras
- Power Naps
- The Best Meditation for Beginners
- Taking a Deep Breath
- Learning How To Meditate
- Guided Imagery
- My Experiment in Mindfulness
- Chakra Meditation
- Spiritual Altars
- Walking the Spiritual Path
- My Meditation Cocoon
- Spiritual Growth Success
- Spiritual Stories
- Seeing Ghosts
- The Weight of the World
- The Counting Principle
- Namaste
- Are You the Light Bulb or the Light?
- The Universal Mantra Meditation
- The Smile Meditation
- 10 Breaths Of Freedom Relaxation Technique
- My Bunya Mountains Meditations
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Wow, I really needed to read this today. For reasons that I do not wish to share to everyone reading this, it brought some inner peace, in the form of a gentle reminder of hope for some clarity, back to me. Namaste~
Nigel,
Great post. Thanks for your contributions on the website, through the emails, and for the audio material as well. I think so many of us are in flux during these transformational times. You are not alone in the significant changes with regard to relationships, people crossing over, the pain and confusion of earthly existence. We’re in it big time – all shifting. It’s very hard for many of us to nail down specific goals. Keep the material coming, if you can find the time…
Miles
Everything seems to be Speeding Up! Communication, Interaction, Time, Progress… I can’t remember the last time I was “Bored”. Really – it must be years… When moderating a website like this one, there is always something to do!
Nigel,
Miles said everything that I would like to say, thank u so much for the effort and passion that u express in your work.
Jessica
Hello man who talks to snakes
Shined upon while reading your article
Living wih Passion
unusual strong compulsion to respond
I cried
touched me
Thank you Cindy
Thanks Cindy. I really enjoy … sharing … and when my experiences help others (in whichever way) that gives me all the more motivation to continue. Namaste, Nigel.
Hello Nigel, First off, thank you so much all the downloads absolutely great, and as for the last Koala message, GREAT STUFF!! I have these same fantastic moments on the weekends at the seaside. I want to get to the mountains and the old trees next, as i feel drawn towards the green side. So sorry for your loss, wish you a speedy recovery. I love to hear your stories, they are so uplifting! Yes! i too have learnt about the living with passion, and find it so totally fulfilling and rejuvenating. I have learnt so much from exploremeditation and am so grateful for all the information, will soon be signing up for the develop intuition etc.
With love and light
Belita
Nigel,
Wow! What a great experience for you. I was surprised to have some common experience on my own holiday in nature. I always find nature so restoring, and as my spiritual “training” is nature based/shaministic, I also really identify with animals and their messages.
I’m also in transition from day job, to something I truly love. I also had a snake experience even though I am way around the globe in Canada. My son caughter beautiful garter snake, and I was thrilled to hold it, as I hadn’t held a snake for a long, long time (come to think of it the last time was during the last huge transition I had in my life). Hmmm… I loved your comment “snakes for me are symbolic for many things, including the ability to shed old skin and start fresh”, I would have to agree that’s probably the message I was getting too…
I find it very useful to write down goals in all areas of your life. (Today I’ll be writing again my vision for my “new” job…) I naturally resist doing this, but I have found it so helpful. My husband and I wrote down everything we wanted in a new house, and though it took a year, the description matched perfectly.
The MOST important thing about writing your goals, is to not only write what you want, but WHY you want it. How will attaining it make you FEEL. Focus on the FEELINGS of having it. Also, focus on how it will fulfill you in SERVING others, fulfill your highest potential, and serve the Divine. Then detach fully from expectation – wrap it in a bow and send it up to God.
This is easy to say, but of course can be challenging to do.
Good luck!
Kara
hello Simon i too am at a criss cross in or on my path. i am going on a road trip to visit my options physically. i am so inspired by you and i am so much more grounded since i meditate everyday with your meditations. i live in Canada and will be driving up through BC i hope to get a clearer picture as well. hey are you an aquarius? love and light michelle
Hi Michelle, thanks for sharing
My name is actually Nigel. Your comment made me laugh though, for if I am ever confused – I ALWAYS get Simon. Seriously. It was a few years ago now, but there was a month where Everybody I met for the first time called me Simon. The name must have been radiating in my aura. A connection to a past life – or currently sharing some energy with a Simon I suspect. Nice to know that tie is still there. All the best of luck with your choices
And – I’m a Scorpio.
Hi Nigel, yes i do have concrete goals, i have had them through most of my life and achieved each one with a lot of passion! So the koala really told you a good trick in my opinion…I don’t wright my goals but they are imprinted in my inner being, like i automatically go for this passion and make it reality! Good luck and thanks for sharing
Hi Nigel. It’s like a deja vu when I read your article, because I just read a book called “Being Happy For No Reason”. One of the chapter is about “find your passion”, and your article is make more believe that “find your passion” is one of the best way to achieve happiness in life.
Thank you for delivered this message to us, Nigel, God bless you.
Hi Nigel
I’m just back from camping too, only mine was a set challenge, my Gold D of E, that I was doing and so I didn’t have much time or energy for contemplation!
I have VERY set goals at the moment, I’m applying for uni, taking my last year of schooling and learning to drive! I look forward to a time when I can let life happen to me a bit more!
Becca
hello read your email.got some good inspiration.i have goals but does not really realises.lots of wishes.then i sincerely say to myself is whatever i am destined to get i will get it.we can ask but if we dont get i take it as god love and blessing
While reading your comment I saw a really clear picture of a sailboat in a wide ocean. Without navigation equipment, and without reading your direction from the stars … you are free to go where the winds of life take you. But having a goal or a destination in mind, you can captain your vessel utilizing the exact same winds and get to somewhere that is your hearts desire. Both methods of living are fine, as long as you’re not drifting and wishing you were elsewhere. Namaste, Nigel.
Hello Nigel,
I am not exactly sure what it is that I wanted to “comment” on; I simply felt compelled to say “Hello”. Your story is refreshing, beautiful, and filled with a simple yet complex truth. I enjoyed it very much. Having just stumbled across your page today, to be completely honest, I was most struck by the fact that the wisdom and strong sense of spirituality I was reading was coming from a young male in his 30’s. (Please don’t take that in any way but as a compliment.) Your kind is few and far between, and I just wanted to say Thank You for being.
In Love and Light, Cheers, Mary
Thank you Mary, yes I’m in my 30′s, but some mornings I dont feel so young! haha. You did make me think – most of my spiritual friends are ‘slightly’* more mature females. (* = plus 20 or more years) but age is of no concern when you feel a good connection with someone. Thank you for sharing … In Love and Light, Nigel.
Agreed. I am 30 myself, and most of my Spiritual friends are 10 plus years my senior, also mostly females.
I also read your “walking the spiritual path” story, and have found myself experiencing the same kind of changes in my relationships over the past few years. It is sad at times to think of old relationships that have not endured, but take peace in the fact that every relationship serves a purpose, and once that purpose has been realized, it is only healthy to move on, making room for the new (like a snake shedding its skin). One of my favorite quotes is coming to mind, by Eleanor Roosevelt, “The purpose of life is to live it, to taste experience to the utmost, to reach out eagerly and without fear for newer and richer experiences.”
Cheers! Mary
I was in the supermarket just yesterday and started a conversation with a beautiful old man. He commented that the price of Razors had gone up. Im sure compared to 1940 they had! I pointed out the cheaper ones on the bottom shelf (because his eye-site wasnt too good) and using his cane, he lowered awkwardly to one knee. I hovered for a few moments, so I could casually offer him a hand to get up when he was ready. He politely declined, and with a few wobbles did it himself. He meant nothing by it – but said with pessimistec gloom to me and a 20ish yo girl close by, “You’ll get old too one day!” It made me appreciate bending down to check the price of razors; quickly popping into the supermarket to grab a few things; and how many people he must have met – and things he must have seen during his time here. People come and go… times change… but he was still detirmined to do the best with what he had. For some reason that encounter will stay with me.
Wow. I can honestly say that I don’t always read your posts, although I do save them to a folder to read later. For some reason, today I was compelled to click on the link and read what you had written. I was immediately struck by the similarities of what you have been going through to what myself and several others I know have been going through. I think that we live in some very trying times, and it can be trying at times to continue on, even when you are firm in your belief that things are happening for a reason. What struck me most, though, was when you came across the crossroads and weren’t sure which fork to take. Your meeting with the Koala wasn’t any accident, as I’m sure you are aware. Neither was your coming across the snake on his rock. The sentence that stands out most, however is this one: “I need a passion that will drag me from my bed before my alarm goes and give me goose bumps on expressing my enthusiasm about it to a friend.” Wow. Just, wow. That’s how I’ve been feeling for at least the last year. I keep getting hints about how to do this from the Universe, but somehow I keep not making the connection and utilizing them. I feel like this is my way of sabotaging myself, which I’ve had a history of doing all my adult life. I’ve recognized this within myself and have and will continue to work on it. So, anyway. I guess that’s all I have to say. I hope I haven’t rambled so much that you’ve stopped reading. Lol. I think I’ll start reading your posts more often. Thank you for sharing your journey. It’s good to be reminded that I’m not alone in this world. P.S. – I hope you don’t get taken up in the rapture, as I would miss future postings.
Thank you for sharing this, Nigel!
It came to me just at the right timing, as everything in life, I believe.
I’m one of those people who can’t bear a 9 to 5 job but I accepted that kind of job 4 years ago, “because that’s the right thing to do, and you know, you have a child to support” Well, after 4 years I resigned just a few days ago. I was so stressed I was starting to feel ill. And I’m in some kind of a crossroads too.
Your experience is very interesting as it made me re-think my goals and got across messages I needed to hear. I’ve been sorting out my passions, as I have many, but then again when you stress: “something that would drag me out of my bed before the alarm clock goes and give me goose bumps on expressing my enthusiasm about it to a friend..” wow, that really made me re-evaluate everything. And to tell you the truth, I find that what makes me jump out of my bed with bliss has nothing to do with what I consider “work”, so I will have to find a way to make those fun things give me a profit, I guess..
In my case, the animal that has been surrounding me non-stop lately are cats, which for me symbolize independence,self-assurance and intuition.
Hope your journey continues to be a magical one!!
Cheers
Shelly
Beautiful Shelly, I think those cats are telling you that you have done the right thing! Mum use to say to me, ‘Life is too short to be unhappy’, so I’ve never stayed at a job longer than I needed to explore all that it had to offer. All the very best with this next stage of your life, may the angels shine light on your path
Nigel, x
Thank you Nigel!
I wish my mum would say things like that. But being the reality otherwise, I just have to stay focused on believing in myself. I sometimes feel like I’m struggling against almost everyone besides me, except my wonderful 12 year old son Joseph, who just last night told me: stop! stop searching outside yourself! all you need to know is inside you, but I can’t tell you, you have to find out for yourself…wow, that was unbelievable…and I know he is quite right. He is my master and companion for this life, such a treasure and a blessing
Thank you again Nigel, I’m sure this next stage of my life has quite some surprises in it for me!!
And may the angels shine light on your path too!!
Light % Love
Shelly
Nigel, thank you for sharing and for such a wonderful website. I enjoy the meditations and the articles. I too am at a crossroads in my life and what you said about living with passion really hit home. You are fortunate to be able to live the life you are passionate about. I wish others would realize that they too can to it. It is after all a very giving universe.
~Wishing you Inner Peace
Karen
Hi Nigel,
I found your website today. And I loved it. Personally, I am on a crossroad right at this moment. Life is giving me a chance to grow, choose, move forward. Or I can stay where I am. It’s all up to me. And that is the beauty of life for me: you get to choose. You can live with passion… or not. I love the way you choose to live and explore your inner world. And the way you share it with others.
Blessings,
Linda
Thanks so much Linda, your experience and perspective are appreciated
Even if you choose to stay where you are – you are aware that there is choice. It conscious – not blind faith. Namaste, Nigel.
Hi Nigel,
I loved this. I have been trying to find my Passion and my reason for being for so long now. I want to do something I love. I want to get paid to do what I love…. What puzzles me is why it takes so long to find these answers when we all know they are already inside of us.
Your idea of a retreat is definitely a good idea and one I have been considering for a while now. Get away from it all, meditate, pray and hope that the answer is revealed.
Please keep up with writing these. I love receiving them
Athenea
I love the way u write. Sometimes u confuse me are u depressed ? If ys, writing is the best way to relieve it and I think you are doing the right thing.
Hi Lata, although occasional depression is a natural emotion and shouldnt be viewed negatively… I would prefer to say Im Exploring All Aspects of Happiness. Nigel.
Hi Nigel, thank you for sharing so much of yourself, it is uplifting and exciting to receive your communication. You give me the chance to connect with the largest part of who I am that receives the smallest amount of my time everyday.I have exsperienced loss also with every female close to me passing. This gave me a connection beyond what we see every day and I cherish what I have now.It has been a very confusing process to go through alot of time and lonely and isolating other times but now it is simply calm and blissful( also helpful}. To be broken hearted from a relationship breakdown was a very empty feeling for me when I exsperienced that, draining. I was fortunatley shown the future which made it easier to moove my feet whilst I was looking at them. It took time to let go, process and accept where I was on many different levels. Your work is bringing me more of myself and I cannot explain, thank or love you enough for this. Your work is important to me and it will be with me always, Grant
Good morning Nigel,
Thank you for this post. Reminded me to do something I had started, but not properly finished. More importantly I realized and remembered it was so very important. Thank you again. Keep up the most excellent work. It is greatly appreciated.
Joel
Thank you Nigel. Im going to spend some time in the bush somewhere this weekend. How cool is it that you saw a Koala.
Take care,
Coral.
Dear Nigel,
Thank You so much for your wonderful website! The meditations are really wonderful. Your articles are terrific too! Thank You so much!
Hi Nigel,
What a wonderful relaxing story, you’re a true legend. Hope your finger gets better quickly.
Rob